I recall hearing some body discuss sex starved marriages. (it could were Michelle Weiner Davis, the writer mentioned by ScottH. ) From exactly exactly exactly what she said, the emotions you mentioned are instead normal beneath the circumstances.
Those emotions may also be reversible. If you're able to get a couple of back in a standard relationship that is sexual their libido for every single other will come back to its previous degree. (this might need that your particular spouse really consent to take part in a normal relationship that is sexual.